> It used to be you had to stay together no matter what. It is not that people inthe past would miraculously solve marital problems - they often just had to sta

> It used to be you had to stay together no matter what. It is not that people inthe past would miraculously solve marital problems - they often just had to stay despite violence, abuse or simply sever partners disregard. True story. My grandparents were separated for the final 30 years of their lives, after all their children left the house. But they never divorced.