> Give your mum a call (you’re clearly young, so she’s likely alive) This was unnecessary. Don't make attempts to map a person's opinion to their age. That's a

> Give your mum a call (you’re clearly young, so she’s likely alive) This was unnecessary. Don't make attempts to map a person's opinion to their age. That's a first step towards implicitly invalidating their opinion because of their age, which isn't a substantive rebuttal.