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This is not OK. We do not talk about others like this here; it's uncivil. https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html https://news.ycombinator.com/newsgui

• dsego 9y ago
  Thank you for the sobering reprimand. I feel ashamed of this comment (and the other ones). It served no purpose but to inflame and provoke.
  • jsmthrowaway 9y ago
    For what it’s worth, though I somewhat sparred with you, I can completely understand where you’re coming from. Your anguish that comes through from your situation is the same pain I’ve seen inflicted on so many in my own life. I’d be devastated to hear that you hadn’t found peace with your family, and I genuinely hope that you guys can work it out and find common ground. Blood, water, all that. This was a tough thread but I don’t carry any hard feelings. Nobody won, here. Let’s learn for next time, I owe you a beer, and best of luck (really).
    • owebmaster 9y ago
      > Nobody won, here Although I still feel like people around me give me a difficult time accepting my behavior, at least now I know a huge chunk of the problem also lies in my behavior - and it is only there that I can fix that anguish, not externally. So yeah, hard small victories, I guess.