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Also family courts that punish providers in case of a divorce. Better play it safe and single.

• _1qd4 9y ago
  Divorce is a relatively new thing. You used to just work on your problems and stay together for the family. Family courts are the symptom not the problem. I think western society causes (or promotes?) a bit of hyper-individualism which makes cohabitation really difficult. We also have much easier access to alcohol, drugs, and gambling - aka “family destroyers”.
  • watwut 9y ago
    It used to be you had to stay together no matter what. It is not that people inthe past would miraculously solve marital problems - they often just had to stay despite violence, abuse or simply sever partners disregard. Except prohibition era, acess to alcohol and gambling was easy. Prohibition itself passed because alcohol situation was very bad. And it simultaneously used to be that women were severely disadvantage in workplace making a men practical necessity - no matter what the relationship looks like. That is not people solving problems for family sake.
    • jogjayr 9y ago
      > It used to be you had to stay together no matter what. It is not that people inthe past would miraculously solve marital problems - they often just had to stay despite violence, abuse or simply sever partners disregard. True story. My grandparents were separated for the final 30 years of their lives, after all their children left the house. But they never divorced.
  • sgt101 9y ago
    I think also.. not dying. In the past it was common for people to have multiple marriages but with no divorce, I wonder what the stats say about median duration over time?