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> I need to nudge them to take the situation seriously and follow the logical consequences that follow if they are married to a borderline. No you don’t. It’s
by jansho 9y ago
> I need to nudge them to take the situation seriously and follow the logical consequences that follow if they are married to a borderline.
No you don’t. It’s clear that the poster is already taking it seriously. Personal advice is ok but the tone should be considered more carefully, especially given that you have had negative experiences before (bias.)
> If the wife is the rare borderline who actually cares to get treatment and overcome her BPD...
Sheesh.
- philwelch 9y agoI called out my biases. What are yours? When it comes to issues like this, there are people with biases due to their personal experience, there are trained mental health professionals, and then there are people who have neither the training nor the personal experience to know what they’re talking about. So I’d like to know which category you fall under.