And that could be an attitudinal thing. Why should I care about how someone else personally identifies? Why should I be disparaging about something that will ha

And that could be an attitudinal thing. Why should I care about how someone else personally identifies? Why should I be disparaging about something that will have minimal or no effect on me? I think this is part of why some conservatives find themselves unwelcome. Being outwardly disparaging toward people does not make you friends.