I've read all comments here and about BPD. Most of them just confirm that people with the disease (which I could be included) should feel untrusted because the

I've read all comments here and about BPD. Most of them just confirm that people with the disease (which I could be included) should feel untrusted because the "only" solution proposed is to avoid them. Therefore, they are right and have no mental disease. It is self defense to avoid people that don't give you the value you give yourself. So it is more a problem of self-expectation/delusion or the people around you. Both have fixes.