I would imagine the situation for many of these people is not as great as you're framing it. For the most part the accused have been unusually physically unatt

I would imagine the situation for many of these people is not as great as you're framing it. For the most part the accused have been unusually physically unattractive and to say their personalities don't make up for it would be quite the understatement. So they have a situation where if somebody is interested in them it's almost certainly because they're interested in their money. And if they hide their wealth from people - then nobody would be any more interested in them than your average aging unattractive individual. So sure they can get laid by prostitutes and gold diggers, but that in many ways has to be incredibly emasculating. Imagine how awful it must be to know that if somebody shows interest in you, that they're probably lying to you and just after your money. The wife of Weinstein was a head and shoulders commercial girl. George Clooney's wife is a high profile lawyer whose clients include Julian Assange, the former PM of Ukraine, etc. Anecdotal, but there are plenty of very attractive and charismatic wealthy individuals. Yet, at least for now, it seems like they're not the ones engaged in this behavior. And there I would imagine it's because your stereotyping holds much more true.