I met my wife on the website Plenty of Fish. It was actually tragedy that brought us together. I was home from college for a week due because of school shooting

I met my wife on the website Plenty of Fish. It was actually tragedy that brought us together. I was home from college for a week due because of school shooting. We talked the night I got home and then met later that week. 6 months later I proposed and we have been together almost 10 years and married for 5. >how did you know? I genuinely enjoyed being around her and when I wasn't with her I would think about her and smile. After 3 months of dating we ended up going on a 5 day cruise together and things went smashing. We enjoyed each other's company and had a blast together. There wasn't one second that I wished that I wasn't there with her. After that, I knew for sure that she was the person I was going to marry. >Half of me thinks that you have to work hard and be diligent to make it work, and the other half thinks it's just a matter of good interaction between your natural selves. There is work involved. It gets too easy to start taking your spouse for granted. Just small things like planning a spontaneous date night or some other surprise can go a long way but that takes effort.