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Impossible to know. I don't care what qz.com claims. Usually this stuff is done discretely so only 2 people really know what happened. There is also the fuzzy l

• abiox 9y ago
  > There is also the fuzzy line between there isn't necessarily a line. if you keep "trying to get laid" after being told someone wasn't interested, you're doing both.
  • dominotw 9y ago
    I don't think it works like this M: Can I have sex with you? F: no you cannot have sex with me.
    • abiox 9y ago
      i don't think so either. at least, i haven't really seen it.
• mywittyname 9y ago
  It's very clear when only one person is trying to get laid. Also, the default view should be to assume a person under 30 does not want to have a casual fling with a 50 year old, overweight executive.
  • dominotw 9y ago
    > 30 does not want to have a casual fling with a 50 year old, overweight executive. This happens way more than you imagine. I've known several cases myself.
    • mywittyname 9y ago
      It's still not the default. Causal hookups are about physical attraction, for both men and women. And if genders were reversed, and this was an overweight, 50 year old woman trying to hookup with young, good looking guys, the men here would think to themselves, "eww, no." That is exactly what these young women thought (and said as much in the article)!