A single downvote is not enough to express how much I hate this mindset. A thousand words would be probably not enough either. > having a child is for the pare

A single downvote is not enough to express how much I hate this mindset. A thousand words would be probably not enough either. > having a child is for the parents, not the child. It's beyond me how you can even write such a statement. Children are not things. They are not property. They are not "for" anything. Children are human. They are independent individuals. You can't own them, you can't abuse them, you can't ruin their lives just because you once decided to have unprotected sex. > its sad that people have forgotten that. That's like saying that it's sad that people forgot how natural and beneficial slavery is. With a mindset like that, I'd say that even a dog would be too big a responsibility. Get a Roomba instead. At least it won't suffer because of you. > and its not terrible either. Oh yes, it is. More often than not. > this is part of the culture That says literally nothing about how good - in just about any sense of the word - it is. I believe you're a strong supporter of death by stoning too - it's a cultural thing, after all.