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I think there's another component to this that might be worth noting: The more "nothing" you do, the faster you'll want to get back in the game, and the more l
by RickS 9y ago
I think there's another component to this that might be worth noting:
The more "nothing" you do, the faster you'll want to get back in the game, and the more likely you are to return before you've actually gotten better.
I left a really abusive job a few years ago, and was fortunate enough to be able to do nothing but smoke weed and play xbox and "recover", which I did for about 3 months.
I think that:
1) I didn't do the things that I needed to do in terms of health (recovery is not wildcard leisure. it's a form of work)
2) Those activities got old fast and cause me to be eager to reenter the workforce when, in retrospect, I had merely forgotten about my problems, rather than solving them.
Overexerting your mind/psyche requires mental therapy the same way overexerting your leg requires physical therapy. It's counterintuitive that one should respond to too much work with a new kind of work, but I believe that's the case.
FWIW I think Jordan Peterson has some strong advice here around routine and the acquisition of meaning, but that's perhaps not everyone's brand.
- Declanomous 9y ago>The more "nothing" you do, the faster you'll want to get back in the game, and the more likely you are to return before you've actually gotten better. I left a job where I was totally burned out in June. I traveled the country from June - September. After I got back, I tried working on my personal projects full time and quickly learned I was still burned out. Looking for a job made the same point even clearer. I'm currently working as seasonal help at UPS. I don't need the money, but it's really nice to have a job where I have tangible successes and any effort I put into it is paid back out immediately. I'm absolutely wiped when I get home, but since I've started that job I've found that it's much easier to work on my personal projects. I think I just needed something else to concentrate on, and I needed some obvious successes in my life.