There is a difference bing due to between not enjoying dancing and avoiding dancing due to anxiety or embarrassment. The fact that your friends abandoned you b

There is a difference bing due to between not enjoying dancing and avoiding dancing due to anxiety or embarrassment. The fact that your friends abandoned you because you didn't want to dance is something else entirely. They weren't really your friends. If they were, this wouldn't have happened. I have friends that both love night clubs and friends that don't. Frequently the groups overlap and spend time together doing things they both enjoy. I can't imagine any of them cutting off contact with the others for such shallow reasons. Point being, just because it was this way for you, doesn't mean it applies to everyone else. There are a multitude of reasons someone may not want to dance, and not all are due to disorders. That's a dangerous way to think.