Because it's not highly visible as long as you stay carefully in the closet.... It reminds me of how "don't ask don't tell" seems fairly reasonable until I ima

Because it's not highly visible as long as you stay carefully in the closet.... It reminds me of how "don't ask don't tell" seems fairly reasonable until I imagine a bunch of soldiers away from home sitting around together, waiting for things (which they do an awful lot). Then I try to imagine navigating hundreds or thousands of hours of those conversations while somehow avoiding revealing my sexuality.