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It's not really a question of the church's "business". It's that I do not believe in God, and lying to people about something that central to their identity see
by 0xcde4c3db 9y ago
It's not really a question of the church's "business". It's that I do not believe in God, and lying to people about something that central to their identity seems like a bad thing to do. I'm skeptical that I'd be accepted in the vast majority of churches as an open nonbeliever without continual attempts to "convert" me [1], particularly in the area where I live. I've heard of churchgoers and even priests/pastors who are atheists, but very few ones who are actually open about it to their congregation.
[1] Incidentally, it's not that I'm not open to changing my beliefs, it's that (in my experience) believers are aggressively awful at converting nonbelievers. In many cases they don't even accept that it's possible to be a nonbeliever, immediately falling into "angry at God" tropes.
- deletefb 9y agoI’m an atheist. I sing in an Episcopal choir. I’m the chair of an organization within the church. Everyone knows I’m an atheist and nobody cares. Half of the choir is gay (including me), both organists are gay, one member is Jewish, one member is a former Muslim-now-spiritual, and everyone’s super chill. I’ve never felt unwelcome or out-of-place. I don’t get much out of it spiritually, but it’s a gorgeous space and I get to make delightful music with people I love. There’s nowhere else I’d rather be on Sunday.