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I'm playing a bit coy here, so play along or don't read this: How is facebook different from the internet as a whole? In a way is it a mirror of the internet?
by danschumann 9y ago
I'm playing a bit coy here, so play along or don't read this:
How is facebook different from the internet as a whole? In a way is it a mirror of the internet? Everyone has a presence, they surf pages, they make comments, they have pages, games, etc. In some countries where internet access is new, they don't even know the difference between facebook and the internet, because they never use anything else.
In a way, facebook is like the dark web. It's a version of the internet with different rules. We think the dark web is bad, and now people are starting to think facebook is bad. If we start to hate facebook, what's separating us from hating the internet as a whole?
Is it the separation? On the main internet, your real world friends won't know what you posted. You can let off steam, express your interest in nerdy topics, etc.
Is it because facebook is like public speaking, but without the emotional signals that scare you into being on your best behavior, so you're very likely to say something that could offend the whole room ( and you won't even know you've offended them! )
Is facebook like a dating site? One where you can play 'under the radar' because it's not exactly a dating site? You can be yourself without being yourself.
Facebook is an aggregator. It's like someone took the internet and boiled it down, reduced it, and increased its strength.
When I used to use the internet, I used to think of what I wanted to look at, then search specifically for that, or go to a website that has a niche interest, like nintendopower. Now, I go to a 'generalist' website, like facebook, and I let it suggest something I'd be interested in seeing. There was discovery in the old method, but I was still at the wheel. The search had an aim before, and is now aimless.
Aimlessness, purposeless, nihilism, these are all related. They are all related to having no responsibilities. On facebook, the question is: are you responsible? Sort of. Sort of not. Sometimes you should like a post, sometimes you shouldn't. It's very unclear. It's very discouraging. The "shoulds" are very poorly defined, because everyone has different rules for what good manners are.
Winning on facebook is what, more friends? Until you have so many friends that it dilutes your real friendships into a sea of acquaintances. Or, until you feel like a slave to faux-fame.
The alternative is: don't use facebook. You ditch everyone who uses it, and they think you're a snob, or worse, they think you specifically unfriended them and only them, because they don't know you quit. It's like the whole world jumped off a bridge. Sure, it's the wrong thing to do, but literally everyone did it.
A better alternative: a bot that auto responds to things and tells people you aren't on facebook anymore, and how to reach you. This may be the best way to quit.
- csense 9y agoThe best insight in this comment: "There was discovery in the old method, but I was still at the wheel. The search had an aim before, and is now aimless." The real issue here's the increased personalization. Echo chambers, filter bubbles and alternative facts can thrive when you give each user a different gatekeeper that attempts to filter to their preferences. Rather than using your personality to drive a system for locating information, the system locates information which ends up driving your personality. The fact that the algorithm's choosing before you begin the search adds a reverse coupling coefficient, which is too strong. By attempting to show you only things you want to read, the system inadvertently creates barriers to communication between people who disagree.
- danschumann 9y agoAbide my foolishness a bit more, if you will: My search used to have a query, now it has a history. No longer do I type a string, now I'm tracked, monitored, and suggested to. My search query is my mouse-move, how long I hover, how fast I scroll, what I click on. So, by using facebook, I'm building a search-profile, whereby I'll get results based on this data. It's ever-continuing, but never comes to fruition. Facebook is like typing a novel into google search, and never hitting enter. You continually refine your search parameters, but you never find what you're really looking for.
- davidivadavid 9y agoBut people who disagree generally don't communicate, regardless of whether they use Facebook or not. I find the notion that without "filter bubbles" people would have rational discussions that would be concluded by the truth being discovered and accepted by both parties a bit of a stretch.