I can't say much of anything that hasn't already been said here. Except, that I too keep an 'inner scorecard' for a lot of thing about me and my life. I still

I can't say much of anything that hasn't already been said here. Except, that I too keep an 'inner scorecard' for a lot of thing about me and my life. I still d0, but I started realizing that just keeping tabs on things and evaluating myself against others, data, measurements, society when I didn't have all the necessary information proved foolish for me. I am still trying to stop doing this, but so far my changes have been positive by setting my own goals and working on meeting them for myself. I weigh a lot less. I eat a lot better, etc. Perhaps just getting rid of unnecessary stress about keeping your 'inner scorecard' could help.