Yeah exactly, the whole book was about improving your "inner game" (your beliefs, your values, etc) so you wouldn't have to worry yourself about the "outer game

Yeah exactly, the whole book was about improving your "inner game" (your beliefs, your values, etc) so you wouldn't have to worry yourself about the "outer game". > But you certainly have to look over the edges of the pick-up community. Agreed, many of the teachings and mentors of the pick-up community can be very shaddy and outright bad for the long-term development of a person.