It's about the stuff that you just don't want to do. It can be because they're boring, it can be because they're overly complicated or otherwise scary, bottom l

It's about the stuff that you just don't want to do. It can be because they're boring, it can be because they're overly complicated or otherwise scary, bottom line is the incapability to control your basic urge to avoid things that are unpleasant. My best guess is that some of us just never properly learned that skill as kids.