> But I really can`t explain to myself why it seems to be so hard for many. You should always remember that this says nothing about those people and says a lot

> But I really can`t explain to myself why it seems to be so hard for many. You should always remember that this says nothing about those people and says a lot about you. Your failure to understand them is your failure not theirs. If you do actually want to understand why it is so hard for so many people, stop thinking of people as logical, rational agents, and instead think of them as complex biological systems.