> If you are worried about it no longer feeling in the moment after asking for consent, let me assure you that if they want you as bad as they should, it won't

> If you are worried about it no longer feeling in the moment after asking for consent, let me assure you that if they want you as bad as they should, it won't be given a second thought. This is a phenomenal point. If the "moment" is so fragile, that it can be totally destroy by asking for consent, then it's also very likely too fragile to take any action. If you think "if I ask, then it might ruin the moment", then you also have a huge chance of making someone very uncomfortable.