> for the most part men don't care about the (potential) wife's career. There might even be an inverse correlation - the more successful the man is (hence the

> for the most part men don't care about the (potential) wife's career. There might even be an inverse correlation - the more successful the man is (hence the more money he earns, and the more hours he works), the more he would prefer his partner to take the lion's share of childcare and house-making, and also be able to pay for it. Ideally, of course, neither parent would have to work, but that's even more unrealistic for most of the population.