> I find it often pays to ask, "Hmm, why would I be bothered by that?" in place of saying "You should stop saying that." That's actually an interesting strateg

> I find it often pays to ask, "Hmm, why would I be bothered by that?" in place of saying "You should stop saying that." That's actually an interesting strategy. I'm not sure it works for everyone, but I would at least consider it.