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+1 before your edit it stroke me as funny. There are various degrees of criticism of others (when absent). I agree I would want to change subject if it's total
by yannk 16y ago
+1 before your edit it stroke me as funny.
There are various degrees of criticism of others (when absent). I agree I would want to change subject if it's totally negative, but most of the time I feel like there is also a lot of good things said and to be said.
If your parents and sister are _that_ negative about others, I guess you could also bring that concern to them instead of fleeing :)
- Qz 16y agoWell, it's something I've observed for a long time but never said anything about, and then this topic came along which seemed to address it exactly. I mean, I used to do it a lot myself before, but eventually I realized that it really changes the way you perceive and interact with other people. Even if its not overtly negative, it establishes sort of a gulf between yourself and the people you talk about, and you can't be honest or real with them.