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As long as you disclose your views upfront, rather than partnering with seething resentment because your cofounder has kids. Such people and even others without
by Geekette 9y ago
As long as you disclose your views upfront, rather than partnering with seething resentment because your cofounder has kids. Such people and even others without kids who also abhor such a perspective would like to know upfront so they can partner with someone else.
Bottomline, if you're comfortable holding this view because unlike most people, you actually have many potential partners with the necessary industry skills that have no kids and have the qualities I listed above and share your views, good for you. Otherwise, not starting a company or having it prematurely fail because you picked wrong partners partly by skipping better ones because they had kids seems ridiculous.
- temac 9y agoI guess he would not resent that his cofounder has kids, but rather because he just would be kind of paying (even more than usual) for those kids; why exactly?
- k__ 9y agoYes, I don't have a problem with kids and I think work life balance is very important. I also think that society should help parents with tax cuts, but this lets the whole country pay for it, not just me, because I just happen to work with a parent. What would be next? Paying me less because I live in a shared flat? Because I don't own a car? I didn't make these decisions to have more money to throw it away, but to spend it on stuff I care about.
- phamilton 9y agoAgree. The first thing I would discuss with a cofounder is my financial requirements. I'm not going to quit my job and draw a $100k salary (in SF) to start a company. I wouldn't be able to pay my mortgage, even on the most aggressive of budgets. So the decision for the cofounder becomes whether they want me involved. And my decision is whether the company will likely be successful with that burn rate. A single cofounder taking the same salary as me might push that burn rate over the edge. In which case, we just say no and move on.
- k__ 9y agoAfter I got into self-employment I got more into a "what do I deliver" mindset instead of a "what do I need" mindset. I think this is a better approach to calculating these things.