I'm the same exact way... Tasks and reminders are spread across multiple services, but I never check them. Have you tried offline notes? It's not sexy and it

I'm the same exact way... Tasks and reminders are spread across multiple services, but I never check them. Have you tried offline notes? It's not sexy and it doesn't sync with all of your devices, but for computer-related tasks the only to-do list I've had consistent success with is large post-it notes. It's always next to my keyboard so the effort required to consult the list is next to none.