It sounds like you are interested more in what framework to use than the languages. I still use php and Silex micro framework for the small sites I develop, It

It sounds like you are interested more in what framework to use than the languages. I still use php and Silex micro framework for the small sites I develop, Its not very full featured (not ticking a lot of items on your list) but its fast enough and I know it well enough to put a site together quickly.