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>before any other consideration, make the other person feel at ease What excellent advice! My go-to line has been "what's been keeping you busy lately" which i
by telesilla 9y ago
>before any other consideration, make the other person feel at ease
What excellent advice! My go-to line has been "what's been keeping you busy lately" which is a polite form of asking what someone "does" without making them them I only care what job they have.
- aedron 9y agoThat is how you should always interpret the "how are you?" question. Don't just say "I'm fine" - talk about what you did today, what you're going to do tonight, or tomorrow, or in the weekend. That's usually a good jumping off point to talk about some other topics. Also: https://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/2008/03/18/88-dinner-parties/ https://stuffwhitepeoplelike.com/2008/03/18/88-dinner-partie...
- brepl 9y agoExcept when "how are you?" just means "hi".
- mentalpiracy 9y agoI really like this twist, I'm going to start using it myself. Thanks!