That's not being an ahole at all. They need to get this stuff right. Food allergies and intolerances are very common. I follow a very strict diet to manage Cro

That's not being an ahole at all. They need to get this stuff right. Food allergies and intolerances are very common. I follow a very strict diet to manage Crohn's disease. If ask for strawberry jam, not only is raspberry jam not acceptable, but other brands of strawberry jam are probably also not acceptable.