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Would you share what you would do differently or the cause of the loss of your wife?
by cheez 9y ago
Would you share what you would do differently or the cause of the loss of your wife?
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- BatFastard 9y agoWhen you do a startup, if its not your wife you fail
- cabaalis 9y agoI spent many evening hours working, and did not foster the relationship. I stayed up late at night, she was going to bed alone. Even good relationships need constant work. Secondly, I think working for myself somewhat transitioned me from "boy to man" so to speak, not in a good way. I became less inherently trusting of other people, and sometimes the stress wore on me and I became distant.
- nbanks 9y agoIt's probably quite common. This is the part of Elon Musk's story which people rarely mention. Divorce is a high cost for any business, and I'm sorry you went through it. I've read it takes a couple hours a day to maintain the feeling of romantic love in a relationship (according to Willard F. Harley). If you're in love this is pleasurable time spent rather than constant work, but it's really easy to let other stuff get in the way.