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Why would you need to go through all of that for a FRIENDSHIP? I don't think you read his post.
by pinksoda 16y ago
Why would you need to go through all of that for a FRIENDSHIP? I don't think you read his post.
- todayiamme 16y agoTrust me I read his post. Any relationship I engage in I take it very seriously. I want to be there for people and love them. That's what it means for me. On the other hand, I was trying to list what happens in someones mind when they try to decide if someone should be close to them or not. The list must be pretty inaccurate, but it was more to show a point than to form a blueprint. P.S. - I know that I tend to take stuff too seriously, but I just need to emotionally connect with people. So, I guess that YMMV.
- scott_s 16y agoI think most people do, just unconsciously. We don't keep a mental check-list going in our head. But if after interacting with a person for a while, we can say "I dunno, something about him just rubbed me the wrong way," then they failed an item on our implicit list we may not be conscious of.