how do you cope with something like gossip in consul when you have a host <-> nat <-> internet <-> nat <-> host setup? the last time i tried, gossip wou

how do you cope with something like gossip in consul when you have a host <-> nat <-> internet <-> nat <-> host setup? the last time i tried, gossip would send a udp packet from something other than port 8302, so left to right would work ok, but nat would assume some state there, and treat right to left as a reply, rather than fresh connection, and stuff would get lost. Although, it has been a couple of years and i'm probably misremembering the details. I do remember it being hard to debug.