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If your loved ones require you to install crap on your phone to communicate with you, do they really love you?
by fiatjaf 9y ago
If your loved ones require you to install crap on your phone to communicate with you, do they really love you?
- Shinkirou 9y agoDon't be dense. Not everyone has the technical skills to decide which is the best app to message others. People just go with the popular ones or the ones their family/friends use.
- skinnymuch 9y agoIf you won't install what you call crap and they call good or great on your phone to communicate with them, do you really love them?
- fiatjaf 9y agoGreat reply. Your question demands an answer, for real. As does mine.
- skinnymuch 9y agoI used to begrudge my friends when I was depressed and isolated (self-sabotage). Why weren't they communicating with me in my ways? They were, but not frequently enough to satisfy me. But in the end, them reaching out multiple times when I was available in only one or two spots, was very commendable and I appreciate the friends that did. There has to be a middle ground. In this case, unfortunately, besides close friends or family who know something about tech, you will have to be the one to compromise and use their apps. Plus, I've seen getting people to move to your communication methods which are less popular usually leads to less talking. Not always, just something I've noticed isn't uncommon. I end up talking to people more if we just use FBM or iMessage or something.