I try to focus on what I like doing and who I like spending my time with. I have found that doing things with the aim of one day being a better or different pe

I try to focus on what I like doing and who I like spending my time with. I have found that doing things with the aim of one day being a better or different person than I am just leads to distress. You’ll change anyway, but planning it out doesn’t work so well in my experience.