Not a whiner at all. It sucks. I'm on the job market now and the most feedback I get are from jobs that would be 45 min - 1 hr minimum (in the same city). I've

Not a whiner at all. It sucks. I'm on the job market now and the most feedback I get are from jobs that would be 45 min - 1 hr minimum (in the same city). I've done it before, it's terrible for my health and mental state. Moving closer isn't an option because it's even more expensive than the already expensive area I live in now and the salaries won't compensate to offset that.