>I know I get jealous when I think of a certain girl I know who dropped out of high school and had a few kids and collected welfare to pay for it. I worked hard

>I know I get jealous when I think of a certain girl I know who dropped out of high school and had a few kids and collected welfare to pay for it. I worked hard to pay for my college education, now I'm in part paying for her bad decisions, my share of her support could be spent on a widget I want instead. You're not supporting the girl, you're supporting the kids. The kids aren't responsible for their mother's actions, and screwing over the kids will dramatically decrease their prospects as contributing members of society when they grow up.