It sounds like you're saying that both problems can be addressed simultaneously, but this isn't mutually exclusive with the OP's point that our efforts to addre

It sounds like you're saying that both problems can be addressed simultaneously, but this isn't mutually exclusive with the OP's point that our efforts to address problems should be allocated according to their respective severities. In other words, the OP isn't saying "We shouldn't spend any effort addressing 'emotional labor'", only that the amount should be very small relative to the myriad other problems.