Your viewpoint is depressingly conformist, assumptive and heteronormative. Modern feminism isn't doing enough to break down gender roles, it instead bemoans th

Your viewpoint is depressingly conformist, assumptive and heteronormative. Modern feminism isn't doing enough to break down gender roles, it instead bemoans them, and in doing so inadvertently reinforces them - we should be working harder to break down gender roles, instead of attacking the people who are just following the path society has informed them is the path they're supposed to take. Modern feminism also seems to mostly assume that only women are injured by these societal norms, which I believe is demonstrably untrue. It's also harmful to ascribe to gender what we ought to ascribe to individuals not communicating adequately about their needs/wants/hopes, or just individuals being individuals.