> After all, if your spouse is your best friend, then whom do you complain to your spouse about? Never complain or otherwise say anything bad about your spouse

> After all, if your spouse is your best friend, then whom do you complain to your spouse about? Never complain or otherwise say anything bad about your spouse to anyone but a therapist. Never. Your therapist doesn't have to forgive your spouse. A therapist doesn't have to like your spouse. While you may forgive them, your friends/family won't be so quick to do so, if they do so at all.