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Comparing it with laziness is not far away from saying poor people are lazy. Laziness has nothing to do with it. More often than not, such claims are often con
by devdad 9y ago
Comparing it with laziness is not far away from saying poor people are lazy. Laziness has nothing to do with it.
More often than not, such claims are often connected with not seeing hidden privilege as a competitive advantage. Of all of my successful friends, only one come from a socioeconomic environment that isn't middle class or above.
The ability to climb on the socioeconomic ladder is much harder for those without means and connections - these means and connections are almost always directly correlated to your family.
As a personal anecdote, all of my kids friends have parents which are able to support them financially and are able to work 40-hour weeks. They are all academics and their kids get the benefit from having the language and mindset of academics from an early age.
At the same time, my cousin is a couple of steps down on the same ladder. Her kids friends parents are working part time, often several jobs, and still have a hard time making ends meet.
My kids are according to studies (on phone so won't be able to reference - an easy Google away) more likely to achieve economic success, go to college and have a better chance ending up one step up on the ladder. Her kids are more likely to end up in crime, less likely to go to college, more likely to stay in the same socioeconomic class.
I'm pretty sure my work gives me more slack and ability to be able to be lazy than the part time factory worker. "Free money" would probably create more equality and a better chance for all kids. Your statement is shortsighted.
- Simon_says 9y agoIn my opinion, informed by what I’ve witnessed personally amongst my peers, poor people are lazier, at least in a statistical, group-average sort of way. This isn’t meant to contradict anything you say about privilege or economic status of parents. In fact kids learn that hard work and contentiousness pay off from their role models, parents, and peers. So successful parents end up having successful kids, and the phenomenon is not explained fully by Dad’s connections. Saying it’s “privilege” is only the beginning of understanding. There are some aspects of personality that parents are imparting to kids, and if you’re interested in helping the rest of the kids, you have to understand what that is.