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I'd argue the opposite - many times abuse isn't something you can just walk away from, because like burnout, the source of the problem comes from something you
by csydas 9y ago
I'd argue the opposite - many times abuse isn't something you can just walk away from, because like burnout, the source of the problem comes from something you depend on, and that's part of why it's such a severe problem. In the case of work burnout, is not the same advice applicable? Just go somewhere else if the problem is that much trouble; plenty of places that offer good work for less stress.
I'm not here to say that one is worse or better than the other; not a point I'm interested in making or debating really as I don't see the value in competing over who has it worse, I see value in trying to help people regardless of the issue. I get that you're frustrated personally with the discrepancy and uneven handling of different serious problems, but just from my reading of this, it seems less like you're worried about the severity of abuse and more about how Western societies tend to treat harassment cases and sexuality, which is a different issue altogether than burnout and workplace harassment.
And I only say Western because I'm living abroad at the moment and I see what it's like where harassment isn't considered a real problem at all, and it results in some absolutely miserable people who have no choice in the matter as it's either deal with the harassment or give up a job in their field, which makes it near impossible to get back into it, especially in specialized industries where the higher-ups all know one another and complaining about harassment is grounds for rejecting an applicant. Trying to ignore it or leave it just results in you being penalized further for a problem someone else is causing.
Like I said before, I'm not sure that Workplace Burnout and Harassment in the workplace are two problems that need to be triaged; the source of the problem is the same, the effects are both debilitating, and the removal of both helps everyone. It's why I find your closing statement to be a strange conclusion to a post which more or less does exactly what the conclusion derides, unless I'm misunderstanding the latter part about the squirrel mindset, as I really don't understand that fully; though I take it to be saying that trying to order subjective experiences is not a reasonable task, which is pretty much what I said before. No need for triage here when both problems have the same source.