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> a luxury for the rich Parents of children under 12 should also be given a pass. (Unless outsourcing the population is a deliberate tactic, of course.)

whiskers08xmt 9y ago
Why is it necessary to have car if you have kids? It's quite possible to get around with kids, if the city is built for it.
- orless 9y ago
  Not every city is built for it. And not everybody lives in a city built for it. I live in a village 25km away from Frankfurt, there is no way you could get around here without a car.
  - whiskers08xmt 9y ago
    Oh absolutely, I should have worded that more clearly. What I meant was, that metropolitan areas should aim to make it possible to get around with kids, instead of having to make tax exceptions for people with kids.
    - orless 9y ago
      What suprizes me is that you ask "why is it necessary to have car if you have kids?" and when I answer why you switch to theoritizing about how the world should be. So either we discuss the reality where the next available pediatrician is in the next city (1h with two busses, imagine this trip with a sick child on your hands). Or we discuss the fantasy world of "everyone should be able to get everywhere they want to go easily". But then stop asking, what is it about children that you need a car.
ricardobeat 9y ago
Kids can walk, when not young enough for a trolley. My 5-year old just cycled 4km with me this weekend.
- fh973 9y ago
  My 5 year old did a 25km tour on her bike this summer. Kids are very different, in both directions.
- mantas 9y ago
  Kids can not only walk, but walk alone too. I was going to elementary school on my own when I was 7. So did my classmates. I used to cycle all around by the age of 10. It sucks that today youngsters are treated as dumb. Even though the world is getting safer and safer.
  - krtkush 9y ago
    Relevant - https://www.cbsnews.com/news/japanese-young-children-solo-commute-subway-school/ https://www.cbsnews.com/news/japanese-young-children-solo-co...
- orless 9y ago
  My 5yo goes to a kindergarten which is 7km away. I'm sure he'll be delighted to walk that distance. Five days a week.
  - icebraining 9y ago
    Have you considered a bike with a second seat? I'm honestly just curious, not criticizing your choice.
    - orless 9y ago
      That would be ca. 30 minutes cycling one direction, then another 20 minutes to the train station where I need to catch my train. 50% of the route on country roads where overtaking trucks are great funs. With a lot of rainy days from October till April and a few days of snow in winter months. So no, I did not consider biking with a second seat. It is completely unrealistic.
      - 9y ago
pmontra 9y ago
It depends. I used to walk to school alone when I was little. When I was a little older I walked my younger brother to his school, then I walked to mine. My parents didn't need a car to do that for us. However all of us used a car to go shopping once a week. A four people family buys an incredible amount of stuff. Sometimes I walked with my mother to small shops to buy fresh food during the week. We also walked to health care centers. Everything was in a 20, maybe 30 minutes range. If cities are planned to place homes close to important locations there is little need for cars.
- Kluny 9y ago
  If I had kids under 12, I'd be all about grocery delivery. In my town you can order groceries online and delivery is about 5 bucks if your purchase is over $50 - not taskrabbit or anything, but the store's own delivery service. I'd go that way in a minute over stuffing kids into shoes and clothes and an SUV for something that should be a 30 minute job.
  - giancarlostoro 9y ago
    I've heard (in some places) in Mexico you can have groceries delivered to you from Walmart[0]. I was told about it, but after finding that article it seems a Walmart owned business, mind you this article is from 2014, and I heard about this in 2007 ~ 2008 from someone who was living in Mexico at the time. It is very interesting to see businesses other than food places deliver goods. http://www.theretailingmanagement.com/?p=317 http://www.theretailingmanagement.com/?p=317
  - icebraining 9y ago
    Yeah, delivery for the packaged stuff and walking/biking for the fresh groceries is nice. A problem with delivery, besides price, is that some stores still require a large time window. Being stuck at home from 9h-13h every Saturday would suck.
lhopki01 9y ago
What exactly is it about children under the age of 12 that requires a car?
- orless 9y ago
  I'm a father of two boys (8 and 5 yo) and we live in a small village (Ober-Erlenbach) next to a sattelite city (Bad Homburg) close to a big city (Frankfurt). We could not get along without a car (actually we own two cars). The younger child goes to a kindergarten on the opposite end of Bad Homburg. That's 40 minutes with the bus one direction. No, there was no option of a kindergarten closer to our house. There was no option at all, you just take it where you get place. The younger child has an illness and we have to bring him to a therapy at least once a week. That's in a hospital in another sattelite city on the opposite end of Frankfurt. Two hours with bus one direction. The older child has allergy treatment in another hospital in Frankfurt. One and a quater an hour with public transport. And these are just a few examples. Without a car my wife would probably have to stay home just to manage children. To answer your question - children introduce spatial responsibilities we you can't typically efficiently manage without a car.
  - icebraining 9y ago
    You're right. That said, ideally the government could work to reduce those exceptional needs, like having more kindergartens or providing transport for medical care.
    - fwn 9y ago
      ...which is what some government's do through the provision of an environment in which people can afford to own cars. The argument that there are currently great reasons for automotive mobility isn't affected by the notion that a set of imagined circumstances could enable people to stop being reliant on cars in the future.
      - deleted 9y ago
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markdown 9y ago
In Japan kids as young as five take the train to school alone. There's even a show called My First Errand about this: https://www.citylab.com/transportation/2015/09/why-are-little-kids-in-japan-so-independent/407590/ https://www.citylab.com/transportation/2015/09/why-are-littl...
slackingoff2017 9y ago
I used to live on the east coast and saw kids riding the subway all the time. It's no different than taking them into a store. A bonus of public transport is that you can let your kids do whatever once they hit 13. There's always a few awkward years where they can basically care for themselves but can't drive. Today's parents are way too paranoid. My mom grew up in the country and back then all the kids were driving by 12 even in town. I think modern age limits are more about making sure you can get charges to stick in court than a safety issue

whiskers08xmt 9y ago

Why is it necessary to have car if you have kids? It's quite possible to get around with kids, if the city is built for it.

orless 9y ago
Not every city is built for it. And not everybody lives in a city built for it. I live in a village 25km away from Frankfurt, there is no way you could get around here without a car.
- whiskers08xmt 9y ago
  Oh absolutely, I should have worded that more clearly. What I meant was, that metropolitan areas should aim to make it possible to get around with kids, instead of having to make tax exceptions for people with kids.
  - orless 9y ago
    What suprizes me is that you ask "why is it necessary to have car if you have kids?" and when I answer why you switch to theoritizing about how the world should be. So either we discuss the reality where the next available pediatrician is in the next city (1h with two busses, imagine this trip with a sick child on your hands). Or we discuss the fantasy world of "everyone should be able to get everywhere they want to go easily". But then stop asking, what is it about children that you need a car.

ricardobeat 9y ago

Kids can walk, when not young enough for a trolley. My 5-year old just cycled 4km with me this weekend.

fh973 9y ago
My 5 year old did a 25km tour on her bike this summer. Kids are very different, in both directions.
mantas 9y ago
Kids can not only walk, but walk alone too. I was going to elementary school on my own when I was 7. So did my classmates. I used to cycle all around by the age of 10. It sucks that today youngsters are treated as dumb. Even though the world is getting safer and safer.
- krtkush 9y ago
  Relevant - https://www.cbsnews.com/news/japanese-young-children-solo-commute-subway-school/ https://www.cbsnews.com/news/japanese-young-children-solo-co...
orless 9y ago
My 5yo goes to a kindergarten which is 7km away. I'm sure he'll be delighted to walk that distance. Five days a week.
- icebraining 9y ago
  Have you considered a bike with a second seat? I'm honestly just curious, not criticizing your choice.
  - orless 9y ago
    That would be ca. 30 minutes cycling one direction, then another 20 minutes to the train station where I need to catch my train. 50% of the route on country roads where overtaking trucks are great funs. With a lot of rainy days from October till April and a few days of snow in winter months. So no, I did not consider biking with a second seat. It is completely unrealistic.
    - 9y ago

pmontra 9y ago

It depends. I used to walk to school alone when I was little. When I was a little older I walked my younger brother to his school, then I walked to mine. My parents didn't need a car to do that for us. However all of us used a car to go shopping once a week. A four people family buys an incredible amount of stuff. Sometimes I walked with my mother to small shops to buy fresh food during the week. We also walked to health care centers. Everything was in a 20, maybe 30 minutes range. If cities are planned to place homes close to important locations there is little need for cars.

Kluny 9y ago
If I had kids under 12, I'd be all about grocery delivery. In my town you can order groceries online and delivery is about 5 bucks if your purchase is over $50 - not taskrabbit or anything, but the store's own delivery service. I'd go that way in a minute over stuffing kids into shoes and clothes and an SUV for something that should be a 30 minute job.
- giancarlostoro 9y ago
  I've heard (in some places) in Mexico you can have groceries delivered to you from Walmart[0]. I was told about it, but after finding that article it seems a Walmart owned business, mind you this article is from 2014, and I heard about this in 2007 ~ 2008 from someone who was living in Mexico at the time. It is very interesting to see businesses other than food places deliver goods. http://www.theretailingmanagement.com/?p=317 http://www.theretailingmanagement.com/?p=317
- icebraining 9y ago
  Yeah, delivery for the packaged stuff and walking/biking for the fresh groceries is nice. A problem with delivery, besides price, is that some stores still require a large time window. Being stuck at home from 9h-13h every Saturday would suck.

lhopki01 9y ago

What exactly is it about children under the age of 12 that requires a car?

orless 9y ago
I'm a father of two boys (8 and 5 yo) and we live in a small village (Ober-Erlenbach) next to a sattelite city (Bad Homburg) close to a big city (Frankfurt). We could not get along without a car (actually we own two cars). The younger child goes to a kindergarten on the opposite end of Bad Homburg. That's 40 minutes with the bus one direction. No, there was no option of a kindergarten closer to our house. There was no option at all, you just take it where you get place. The younger child has an illness and we have to bring him to a therapy at least once a week. That's in a hospital in another sattelite city on the opposite end of Frankfurt. Two hours with bus one direction. The older child has allergy treatment in another hospital in Frankfurt. One and a quater an hour with public transport. And these are just a few examples. Without a car my wife would probably have to stay home just to manage children. To answer your question - children introduce spatial responsibilities we you can't typically efficiently manage without a car.
- icebraining 9y ago
  You're right. That said, ideally the government could work to reduce those exceptional needs, like having more kindergartens or providing transport for medical care.
  - fwn 9y ago
    ...which is what some government's do through the provision of an environment in which people can afford to own cars. The argument that there are currently great reasons for automotive mobility isn't affected by the notion that a set of imagined circumstances could enable people to stop being reliant on cars in the future.
    - deleted 9y ago
      [deleted]

markdown 9y ago

In Japan kids as young as five take the train to school alone. There's even a show called My First Errand about this: https://www.citylab.com/transportation/2015/09/why-are-little-kids-in-japan-so-independent/407590/ https://www.citylab.com/transportation/2015/09/why-are-littl...

slackingoff2017 9y ago

I used to live on the east coast and saw kids riding the subway all the time. It's no different than taking them into a store. A bonus of public transport is that you can let your kids do whatever once they hit 13. There's always a few awkward years where they can basically care for themselves but can't drive. Today's parents are way too paranoid. My mom grew up in the country and back then all the kids were driving by 12 even in town. I think modern age limits are more about making sure you can get charges to stick in court than a safety issue