Oh boy... Depending on how much you want something, and your personality, the following and more may readily discourage you: * Fear of rejection * Fear of se

Oh boy... Depending on how much you want something, and your personality, the following and more may readily discourage you: * Fear of rejection * Fear of seeming out of place * Fear of general embarassment * Fear of disappointment or being underwhelmed upon conquering fear of embarassment and/or ignoring embarassment produced * Fear that "it won't be worth it" /a male