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> (someone else manages my password). I'm curious what you mean by this.. someone set your FB password and has to log in for you in order for you to be able to
by craftyguy 9y ago
> (someone else manages my password).
I'm curious what you mean by this.. someone set your FB password and has to log in for you in order for you to be able to access it? That seems weird. Why?
- rwc 9y agoIf you don't have self-control, remove the "self" from the equation?
- kendallpark 9y ago^^^ this. FB is a huge time sink and I rarely need it for legitimate matters. If I want to use it, my designated password-holder logs me in. I can always go through the reset process if I need it and they are not around. But the hassle of resetting is enough of a deterrent from absentmindedly checking my feed every half-hour.
- craftyguy 9y agoGot it, thanks for the clarification
- phalangion 9y agoIt's something I've considered doing to stop myself from compulsively checking it. Some people (me included) have low self control.
- eradicatethots 9y agoWhile this may work, I think you should try to work on your self control instead of these absurd mechanisms- or perhaps Facebook isn’t as bad for you as you live decided it is? If you like it so much, perhaps it’s doing something good for you, right? Cavemen didn’t have much to go by but feelings, and they did ok for themselves.
- linkregister 9y agoSome people have weaknesses. Alcoholics should avoid bars instead of constantly testing their self-control. There are times to focus on self-improvement, but in the meantime, we can’t halt our lives to do so. Appropriate time and place.
- eradicatethots 9y agoOk, but that doesn’t mean it’s ok to say something like this and then completely neglect the underlying issues. Even if they’re not urgent, if you’re not working on them you should expect they will never get better on their own. That’s why you shouldn’t just ignore these things. Plus, I’d bet on them becoming bigger problems if neglected not smaller ones. It’s tough stuff but running from it seems like bad advice to me.
- mycat 9y agoIf you leave something really long enough, you will stop needing it. Of course you may have relapse, but, never stop trying. I did something similar with gaming. It works.
- dvtv75 9y agoI had the problem of needing Facebook. I found I was checking it every few minutes, sometimes as often as twice a minute, so I decided that I was going to demonstrate some self-control: I closed my account. You're absolutely right - after the first few days, I stopped thinking about checking it all the time. After a couple of months, I stopped thinking about it at all. A few years later, I don't even think about it most weeks. Every now and then, I do find myself thinking that I should open another account and that it will be different this time, but deep down I know it won't be.
- sogen 9y agoI don’t use it, what’s so interesting about it?
- pizza 9y agoThe allure of being less confined in the variety of social events and encounters that become possible by using FB/social media. Whether or not that ends up being the case, or whether it is rewarding enough for the associated negative aspects (remotely-induced stress, obsessive behaviors, anxiety, etc.) in the long term ends up being a factor as to whether or not someone keeps using it.
- sogen 9y agoThanks for the write up. To me it seems more like an endless “look at Me!”, with ads in between...