It’s hard to tell through text on a post on HN but make sure you take a breath and gently show your wife that you aren’t “angry as f*ck” at her. You might alrea

It’s hard to tell through text on a post on HN but make sure you take a breath and gently show your wife that you aren’t “angry as f*ck” at her. You might already have done this and if so, disregard this advice. But you sound overly mad. All of this is fixable. But she now had been violated and is the victim here. If I were in her shoes I would not want you to be angry with me as well. Phishers are pretty good at suckering people into these scams and she was caught. Oops. Life will go on. Second, and this is coming from a guy who has horrible anxiety and panic attacks (me) especially when it comes to money and scams, again take a breath. Relax. It’s going to be ok.