I disagree. People actually jump-in to marriages willy-nilly without thinking about it. In order to have a fulfilling marriage requires a lot of work, which is

I disagree. People actually jump-in to marriages willy-nilly without thinking about it. In order to have a fulfilling marriage requires a lot of work, which is what long-term dating should be until both are mature. You must have agreed upon values, money, almost everything before marrying someone. And I hope that every couple continue to "court" each other even when they are married. As in, don't let yourself go -- if you're fit and awesome, I expect you to be that throughout (unless health conditions etc., outside your control). Don't flip a switch after marriage. And expect a pre-nup. Just saying.