> sometimes people seem to confuse the two Holy cow, will I ever echo that. I mention it in another comment, but to be clear, marriage is work. Again, it's a c

> sometimes people seem to confuse the two Holy cow, will I ever echo that. I mention it in another comment, but to be clear, marriage is work. Again, it's a cornerstone, not a capstone, you have to build the house now. (Another piece of advice: In an argument, you are both correct at the same time. This is because you are co-owners and not co-workers)