There was a study of abused wives who finally resorted to murdering their husband's in self defense. They were expecting to find that women who killed their hus

There was a study of abused wives who finally resorted to murdering their husband's in self defense. They were expecting to find that women who killed their husband's had certain personality traits or something like that. What they found was that the ones who did so were basically the most severely abused who had been painted into a corner and had no other way out. That was the only thing they all had in common. Tons of kids get bullied, but the extent and severity varies tremendously. The ones who get bullied the worst typically also have shite home lives and no one at all really looking out for their interests. Your position amounts to "Meh, bullying happens. Can't be arsed to care. The victims need to not go ballistic about it though." And I find this monstrous. We need to create social environments where, no, bullying is not tolerated.