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The judgment about when it's productive to feel angry or more importantly express anger is the tricky part. We shouldn't let ourselves be abused or threatened
by mythrwy 9y ago
The judgment about when it's productive to feel angry or more importantly express anger is the tricky part.
We shouldn't let ourselves be abused or threatened beyond what is reasonable, but where is reasonable?
It's not good to be an abrasive difficult to deal with person who explodes at every perceived slight. So when in doubt I think it's better to error on the side of patience.
- solidsnack9000 9y agoWhat if it’s not about when but how? Anger is there when we need to set a limit, lending us a little severity and fearlessness. Simply being very firm with someone can be a complete expression of anger, leaning on that severity and bravery to set aside conciliatory manners when they are unfitting.