> have the negative affect of giving us "too much" choice, and so people never settle or make choices, or take chances. As someone who settled and is now regre

> have the negative affect of giving us "too much" choice, and so people never settle or make choices, or take chances. As someone who settled and is now regretting it during the divorce, I have to ask why you think people should settle? For that matter, I'm not keen to even hook up, much less get in a LTR again soon, so I have to ask also why you think people should take chances or have to "make choices"? Life is short; too short to waste on people you obviously aren't "meant to be" with. Why not apply an aggressive filter from the start and save everyone time and heartbreak?